Well to start, women are not brought up to know the beauty of sex!
We were blessed with these soft, sensuous, wonderfully sensitive bodies and then told the feelings they give us are bad.
We were told not to enjoy them with each other and not even with ourselves (can you smell the fire and brimstone?). We were brought up that sex is only for procreation and/or when our husband comes home drunk or just demands sex. (Of course, not all men are like this, I am using this as an example.)
Aren't you glad you don't have to live like that?! Acceptance of ourselves and our bodies is a process of UNLEARNING all the negative teachings we were taught. We had to learn that sex is not something to be ashamed of and that those wonderful tingling sensations are good and NORMAL.
If we find ourselves admiring another man or woman and the vibration starts, don't worry, we are not possessed by Satan; we are feeling a normal human reaction. Yes, it's OK to admire that gorgeous guy or girl across the room.
In fact, you can talk to , dance with and take it as far as you like. The wonderful thing is that once we have gone though the myriad of changes, we find that we experience a freedom of unparalleled boundaries!!!
We no longer see it as our partners not being happy with us, but as a growth experience for both of us. Our partners probably notice a change also.
Women who were shy and timid, slowly come out of their shells and become more confident and assured of themselves. Your personal sex lives get even steamier as you talk about the possibilities and later the experiences you have.
This Community empowers women!
Of course, we sometimes find that our partners get a little mixed up as we blossom.
Usually the men come into the community with visions of nubile nymphs, all calling his name.
The fact is that most men cannot compete with women. Most men can only cum so much and then they have to rest. Whereas, women can be multi-orgasmic!
Welcome to Silk and Sin!!!!
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